The Prevalence of Social Norms

By Bradley Wright

A social norm is one of the core concepts of sociology, and it refers to the behavioral expectations that a social group holds for its individuals. Basically, a social norm tells you what you’re supposed to do in any given situation. Social norms can operate in both small groups, such as a circle of friends, or a large group, such as a national society. They can be explicit, e.g., written down as laws, or implicit—something everyone just knows. Breaking norms can result in a formal punishment, such as being fined or imprisoned, or an informal punishment, such as being stared at or shunned by others.

There are a lot of things that can be said about social norms; in fact, sociology departments usually offer courses just about social norms and their violations, in a course called “deviance.” In this post, however, I have a fairly modest goal, and that is simply to illustrate just how many social norms guide every aspect of our life. As an example, I’ll consider classroom behavior in a college setting. Sometimes we don’t realize that norms exist until someone breaks them. Here, then, are just few of the many norms operating in this one situation.

Some classroom norms involve how students are to speak in class. If students want to say something, they should discretely raise their hands and wait to be called upon. (By the way, this norm is tough to break. In ten years, I’ve only been able to convince one of my classes to just speak without raising their hands). Once acknowledged, students can then offer their input with several limitations. They shouldn’t talk for too long, and they shouldn’t go too far off topic. What happens if they do? It’s not like the professor will call campus security, but instead the other students in the class will let the student know that they have strayed from appropriate behavior. They do this by rolling their eyes or snickering or some other means.

Other norms involve where and how students should sit during class. They should sit in the chairs provided, facing forward. Once I had a student realize that I never use the comfortable swivel chair provided for the professor (I walk around when I lecture), so he would routinely grab it at the start of class and sit through class leaning back with his feet up on a desk. I was fine with it, but his other students didn’t seem to think this was quite kosher.

When seated, students should give the appearance of paying attention by making a minimum of eye contact with the professor and by, hopefully, by staying awake. If a student dozes off, they should discretely close their eyes and definitely not just lay down or lean against the student next to them.

Students should also limit behaviors normally reserved for outside of class. For example, it’s usually a bad idea to order a pizza to be delivered to class and then share it with your friends. I know this because I encourage students to do this during evening classes, and it takes several weeks before they actually believe

that they can. Students should also have only specific interactions with their fellow students, such as talking or quietly joking around. Once I had two students in the back row start making out during lecture. Now, I tend to run a pretty loose class, but that surprised even me, and when I stopped lecture in befuddlement, the rest of the class turned around and started hooting and hollering.

Suppose that students need to leave class early. They can do so if they follow the right rules. If the class is small enough, they should let the professor know ahead of time. They should sit by the door, and when the time comes quietly pack up their belongings and they slip out unobtrusively. Often students will try to time it so as to leave when the professor has his/her back turned, which can be disconcerting—sometimes I turn around to a smaller class than I had just a moment ago.

This is not to say, however, that all rules are agreed upon. Sometimes people disagree about social norms. A classroom example of this is texting during class. I find it very distracting to have students texting on their cell phones during lecture, and so I think that it’s obvious that they shouldn’t. They, on the other hand, accept texting as appropriate in a wide range of settings, and so as long as they are trying to be discrete, they think what’s the problem?

In reading these examples of social norms, you might be thinking to yourself that they are obvious. Of course you’re not supposed to do some things and you’re supposed to do other things. This is the whole point—we’ve internalized social norms so well that we automatically know the hundreds, if not thousands, of rules that we need to follow as we go through our everyday life. Think about this as you go through today—you’re being guided by a comprehensive, albeit usually unwritten, rule book.

Comments

[ryan c. r]

You're class sounds fun! I'm a sociology major, hoping to go into social psychology at UCSC. Can't wait till the day when I get to teach a class. Do you find that having a more lax environment in the classroom creates better results for retaining information? If someone thinks back to a memory of a situation they enjoyed where they just happened to be learning something, will the person remember what they learned easier because they felt comfortable when being instructed?

[Tiffani W]

One thing I noticed when I studied abroad in France was a different social norm for entering the classroom late. In all of my classes in the U.S., if you have to enter a classroom later, you do so as quietly as possible, maybe mouthing "sorry" if you catch the teacher's/professor's eye.

In France, that's considered extremely rude. When you enter the classroom late, you're supposed to say something along the lines of, "Hello, I'm so sorry to be late!" or something. If you just slip in unannounced, it's like you don't think there's anything wrong with showing up late, and that's a worse societal "sin" than interrupting class.

I found that interesting!

[Terry Yan]

Charles Ogletree of Harvard University about the confirmation hearings for Supreme Court nominee, Sonia Sotomayor and the Pennsylvania Swim Club controversary with minority children being denied entry and NOW, that swim club is offering an olive branch after racism allegations!

Could Senator Patrick Leahy and others be a bigot, racist, and supremacist?

About Senator Leahy: JUNE 9, 1987 WALL STREET JOURNAL, section: JUSTICES DELAYED

Third paragraph reads: The American Bar Association twice has rated Judge Sentelle "Well qualified", but that did not prevent Vermont’s Senator Patrick Leahy from announcing that Judge Sentelle's membership in the Masons could disqualify him. According to Senator Leahy's information, Masons have to be "male, white and believe in a supreme being."

Notice; you have to be a man he said. Not even women, it rejects all women.
Has this ideology changed since then? Can Americans get the truth from Senator Patrick Leahy these days?

[Kendra Hull]

Your Thought process is brilliant. It really helped me open my eyes on how norms are our guidlines in life. I never thought of how many things i just do because I'm supposed to, like your example of just raising your hand in class. Thank you for opening up my eyes! :)

[Sam]

I am only taking a high school level sociology course and we have learned much about the concpets you have talked about in this post. We haven't been told that social norms sanctions and deviance are fundemental parts but it would really make sense. It suprising to see how hard it is for people to break even simple social norms like raising of hands in class. Except when i really thought about how many norms i have to follow in a given day its irritating. I wish i had a teacher that worried more about teaching than haveing control and order.

[centralini telefonici]

I share your enthusiasm.

[allarme casa]

Thanks I'm reflecting on your conversations. I'm a student in sociology and I hope to open up my horizons

[fahdisjro]

Great article. Every human being has a different criteria about the good and bad things. A value serves as a code of conduct in society.

[Isabel Cordoba]

I believe that social norms are there for a purpose and they were created because, something was not right when the rules weren't there. On the other hand, I also, believe that some social norms are just ridiculous and they should be broke. It's hard to break a social norm and, mostly when everyone around you does it. I believe a person should break social norms if they don't believe in them and they are not harming no body. Be happy!

[Keri Hill]

I have an assignment due in April for my SOC 101 class. Its on social deviance and I must break the social norm and them write a one page paper on it. I'm having hard time thinking if what I can do that is safe and doesn't harm my reputation on campus. Ive thought about begging for money or reading the communist manifesto in a Starbucks but I'd like other options to.